Friday, May 11, 2007

No title for this rambling

I was asked by one of you bloggers if everything was okay with me. I'm fine. Thanks for checking in.

Sometimes I go through this guilt that I spend too much time on the computer while I should be living more of my real life.

This is the busiest two-week period of the year for me. Out of the four of us Sour-Swedes, three of us celebrate our birthdays -- as well as The Swede's mom. Throw Mother's Day in there and I'm in party-planning overdrive. If I just concentrate on all the cake I get to eat, it doesn't seem like such a chore.

On a different note, my uncle's wake was unbelievable. A huge crowd turned out to celebrate his life. I'm not exaggerating when I say there must have been 1000+ people there. Countless times I heard people say that he had a gift with people. He was referred to as a "gapper", someone who reaches out and closes the gap between two groups who don't know one another. His children commented that he made everyone feel like they were his favorite. My dad shares this particular gift as well as my sisters and I often jokingly fight out who really is my dad's favorite daughter (it's me).

While the funeral was very sad, it was also meant to be a celebration. His family is kind and funny and each one of them is a wonderful reflection of their dad.

The priest told a funny little story about my uncle. Nearing the end of his life, the priest leaned in and asked if he'd like to do confession. My uncle's reply was, "No, I've been a good guy."

Indeed he was. He will be terribly missed by so many people. I am honored to have had him in my life.

5 comments:

Augs Casa said...

I'm glad you posted. I also had been wondering how you were. I hope all is well with you and yours.

Michael Lehet said...

Happy Birthday to all of you celebrating birthdays.

Don't forget it's Mother's Day for YOU TOO!!!!!

Happy Mother's Day.

Mrs. TBF said...

Having our own trauma with TBFs mom, I haven't been keeping up too well. Sorry about your Uncle T..no more suffering though for him. I'm sure he was a good guy! Hang in there.
By the way...I am scheduled to be there the weekend of June 2nd and 3rd. Any chance I can come an see the new abode then??? Would be great if you and the Swede had an evening for me that weekend. Let me know.
Ciao.

OhTheJoys said...

Living your real life is totally understandable. I've been doing some of that too lately. good stuff!

Kim said...

I am so glad the services for your uncle went well. It seems as if sometimes that does help to ease some of the pain.

Happy belated Mother's Day to you and happy birthday too!

Glad to see that you are back.